Difference Between Exploitation and Submission?

When I wrote the post about women liking gay porn, there was a topic I didn’t feel I could get into without making post twice as long. So here we are: Two posts!

One of the theories as to why women might prefer gay porn over straight porn is that gay porn feels less exploitative than straight, male/female porn. There are fairly rigid gender roles in most straight porn whereby females exist for the pleasure of males. Female bodies are the ones that are put on display; men are often edited out of the scene altogether (except for their cocks), and sex is usually something that is done to the females, not with them.

Women Prefer Gay Porn Over “Female Friendly” Porn

I read a post on HuffPo which mentioned that women prefer watching gay porn – lesbian porn or gay male porn – over “female friendly” straight porn, and I found that fact very interesting. (If true, but the stats are coming from PornHub which would be a good source of data; the only thing that might skew it is if there are still lots of men out there claiming to be women when they sign up for porn sites.) The post has an infographic illustrating the type of porn women (and men) are watching, as well as one illustrating the type of porn they’re searching for; between those two infographics it’s an interesting picture of male/female porn habits. At least, their habits on PornHub, but I’m guessing it’s probably similar on any porn site.

Reasons Porn is Better than Sex: Time

It’s been a while since I wrote one of these posts, so let’s start with the basics, shall we? On the whole, having sex with one or more real women is typically more pleasurable to me than consuming porn and strokin it. That shouldn’t be controversial at all.

But hey – did you notice the caveats I put in that seemingly simple sentence? For one, I said that sex is “typically” more pleasurable than porn and masturbation, which implies that sometimes it’s not. Which, unfortunately, is true: I’ve had some pretty disappointing sex in my time (and some pretty fantastic porn/masturbation sessions), so while it’s not typical it does sometimes happen that specific instances of sex are not as good as consuming porn and pleasuring myself.

Dating Sites

As a married man, I’m limited in the online dating sites I can use: If I want to go looking for women who want to fuck, pretty much my only option is Ashley Madison.

As an aside, you might have assumed that a married man wouldn’t need a dating site; that dating is no longer necessary once one is married. After all, isn’t that the point of dating? To find someone to marry? If you’re thinking that you’re probably female, because men know that there’s another reason – perhaps the prime reason – for dating, which is to fuck. And married men like to fuck too, and don’t always need their fuck partner to be their spouse.

What Is It With the Captions on Porn Images?

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What Is It With Men and Younger Women? Pt. 3

For Part 1 of this post go here, and for Part 2 go here. I swear this will be the last one. Um… I think.

What does it mean to be a good father? A lot of people, when pondering a question like this, will go straight to the extreme: I’d throw myself in front of a train for my children! I’d throw myself on a grenade! I’d lay down my life in any way required, if it would spare them! These are laudable sentiments, but if you think a bit further about it a further question comes up: OK there superman, you’d throw yourself in front of a train for your children, but would you give up a night at the bar to stay home and hang out with them? You’d throw yourself on a grenade for them, but would you leave the office early to go to a recital? (What would I do without cliches? This blog would be bereft of content, and have only pornographic photos to entertain my readers – in other words, I’d be on Tumblr.)

What Is It With Men and Younger Women? Pt. 2

For Part 1 of this post, go here.

I’ve had younger girlfriends too. For the most significant relationship the ratio was something like 37:23. (Yes, 23.)