August 31, 2014

On “Fucking” vs. “Making Love”

How does one define “fucking,” and how does one define “making love”? Obviously both are categories of sexual activity, and the definitions are more qualitative than quantitative. When two (or more*) people are having sex they might be “making love” or they might be “fucking” or maybe they’re doing neither.

* Does it get tiresome that every time – and I’m pretty sure it’s every time – I talk about people having sex I always say “two (or more)”? Is that qualifier really necessary – are there that many people having group sex that I need to worry about leaving them out?

August 27, 2014

Porn’s Impact on the [Teenaged] Brain

Remember when I wrote about porn being addictive? And not just addictive, but addictive in a way that alters the fundamental makeup of our brains? And remember when I said that the effects are worse on younger folks because it catches their brains at a crucial formative point in their development?

August 20, 2014

The Sole of a Foot, Curved Out of a Shoe

I’ve written before that I’m not into foot fetish porn – and that’s not changing – and nor am I into feet in person. I have no interest in cumming on your feet, or kissing your feet, or sucking your toes, or whatever foot fetishists do when they come in contact with feet.

August 10, 2014

Assumptions

I’ve noticed that there’s a core assumption people in the West tend to carry around – maybe people all over the world – which goes something like this: “People are basically like me.”

August 03, 2014

What Does It Feel Like When a Guy Cums?

I can’t tell you.

Is it because it’s a secret? No, I have no secrets from you, my dear blog readers. Ask me anything! I’ve written about my own masturbation being interrupted, about the fact that I’m uncircumcised, about precum (and the fact that sometimes it’s comforting to feel it in my boxers after sex or after yankin it), and hashtags I’m embarrassed to follow, and a bunch of other things besides.