July 27, 2014

Is There a Place for Sexual Shame?

This post is accidentally safe for work. Sorry. I didn’t have time to put in pictures before posting it.

I saw a post with this title on the Naked Truth blog, and thought it was a great idea for a post. My plan, as usual, was to read it and then come here and talk about essentially the same thing, linking back to the article. Except then I read it and it turned out to just be talking about masturbation and why men feel shame after they yank it – even men (as with the case of the blogger’s husband and subject of the post) who weren’t raised to think of masturbation as shameful.

That’s an interesting question, and one that’s worthy of a blog post, but when I saw the title my mind went in a different direction: are there types of shame which are actually valid? Are there times when we should feel shame? In other words, literally: is there a place for shame?

July 23, 2014

The Beast Football

I opened a previous post talking about the World Cup with a photo of a soccer game in the mud. There are a bunch of sexy girls in skimpy outfits playing, and the one in the foreground is adjusting her shorts in a way that gets me instantly aroused:


July 20, 2014

Stash?

Do people bother with stashes of porn anymore? Is there any point?

When I was a kid porn was a lot harder to come by, and you can understand why: stone tablets are hard to transport, and even harder to mass produce! Also, it’s difficult to do good circles with a hammer and chisel, so boobs always tended to come out looking kind of boxy. To this day, just seeing a couple of circles side by side is enough to make me blush; put a dot in the middle of each one and I’ll cum in my pants.

July 16, 2014

World Cup Fever

I don’t watch much football/soccer, and didn’t see any of the World Cup matches. Just from that one sentence alone you can probably tell that I live in North America, right? If I lived anywhere else in the world that would be a shocking thing to say.

July 13, 2014

Doubling Down on Mentorship

That’s a terrible title, but you’ll see where it came from later on.

I wrote a post a while ago in which I took the very brave stance that mentors should not sexually harass their protégés, and that they should do their best to remember this sage advice any time they get attention from someone of the “right” sex/orientation*. It’s probably not because that person wants to join genitals with you, it’s because you’re a mentor and people are naturally going to look up to you.

July 09, 2014

Opposite of Porn Addiction in Action

I don’t normally get headaches, but I do get sometimes get a caffeine headache if I skip my morning coffee. (Or if I just have 1 instead of 2 or 3.) It’s a normal aspect of life for most coffee-addicted North Americans, including myself.

July 02, 2014

Porn Addiction In Action

Wednesday Evening, 8:00 PM
I’m sitting in front of the TV. Watching… I don’t know, something stupid, probably. I’m just killing time, really. My wife and I agreed to have sex later, and I’m hoping it will be soon so that I can go to bed early.