This blog is too new for me to be able to say this, but I’ll say it anyway: There’s a chance this will be the strangest post I ever write. Considering that this is a blog dedicated to my infatuation with porn, a strange topic in its own right, that’s saying something.
I want to talk about the male orgasm. But before I do I want to explain some things which may or may not be common knowledge: if you already knew this stuff I thank you in advance for bearing with me.
First, let’s talk about precum. When a man gets sexually aroused, not only does the cock get hard, it also lines itself with a certain amount of pre-ejaculate, or precum. This precum serves a couple of purposes: it “cleanses” the inside of the cock from the acidity of piss so that it’s more hospitable to the sperm to pass through, and it acts as a bit of lubricant during sex. Some men produce a lot of precum, some produce only a little.
Side Note: There is disagreement in the medical field as to whether precum contains any sperm or not, with some studies saying yes, some saying just a little bit, and others saying no. (One would think this would be easily measurable, but apparently not.) So if you are in the habit of having unprotected sex and just pulling out when it’s time to spray that load, there still might be a chance of pregnancy occurring from the precum itself. Or there might not.
So if you’ve ever played with your man’s (or your own) cock during those initial stages of arousal and coaxed a few drops of that clear liquid out, that’s what it’s for.
The annoying thing about precum is that it’s not always strategic. Think a bit too much about sex at work, producing a hardon, and suddenly you have a problem: it’s not just blood that’s flowing into that rock-hard cock, it’s also being lined with precum. In a little while when you’ve got your imagination under control and your cock is starting to soften that precum has to go somewhere – so say hello to a wet patch inside your boxers.
The other thing I’d mention as background, which is probably even more common knowledge but I’ll mention it anyway, is that men “soften” after orgasm at different rates. Some men might start to go soft immediately after cumming, others might take a long time. Personally, my cock stays hard for quite a while after orgasm, long enough that on some occasions I’ve just kept on fucking and achieved the almost mythical multiple male orgasm.
So that’s the background, and what it means is that men have a certain amount of mess to deal with after sex or masturbation – not just the mess you’d immediately think about from all of that cum, but there is also the precum. And, despite the fact that we call it “precum,” it’s not just there before sex, it’s there all the way through. So I can have sex or masturbate, cum, clean myself off, and a half hour later still notice a wet patch inside my boxers from the precum trickling out as my cock goes soft. Perhaps this is partially because my cock is usually still hard when I’m cleaning myself off.
So if I’ve snuck out to the bathroom in the middle of the night to surreptitiously toss off a quick one and am now sneaking back into the warmth of my bed I have to worry about my still-rigid cock and position my body such that my wife won’t get poked with it – especially if there’s a bit of a wet spot on my boxers. Or if I’ve just rolled off some sexy young thing and am now getting on the subway to head home (or back to the office), that post-orgasmic trickle of precum in my boxers will be right there with me.
As you can imagine, this can be somewhat annoying. If there were enough precum for that wet patch to actually show through my suit it would also be very embarrassing, but luckily it’s not the case. It’s just a small wet patch inside my boxers. Usually, because of the way my cock softens, it ends up embedded in the hair on my inside thigh, just under my balls, and I only feel it when I move certain ways.
But the reason I wrote this post is that it can also, under the right conditions, be a very satisfying feeling. It’s usually on days when I’m home alone and have time to truly enjoy some porn and masturbation time without any rush. I’ll take some time to watch some long videos, and, just like with good leisurely sex, take my time with it. Stroke myself slowly, letting the orgasm build. When my orgasm hits it’s long and hard, shooting ropes of cum (just like in the movies!). Then I clean myself off, put my boxers back on, and go about my business.
And as I’m walking around the house, or sitting in front of the TV, or maybe just reading a book, I can feel the warmth of my semi-erect cock resting against my thigh. I can feel the precum, and it’s no longer uncomfortable, it’s enjoyable. It’s pleasant. It might have something to do with manhood, I don’t know, but I do know that it’s all about context. I wonder if men with smaller cocks even know what I’m talking about; there still has to be a certain amount of weight to the cock for this to be enjoyable, I think.
When a woman enjoys being covered with a man’s cum, those moments when it’s spraying onto her face or body are wonderful, and even feeling the messiness of spreading it around is so erotic (I’m told), but 5 minutes later that probably isn’t the case. At that point the cum is starting to get cold and sticky and she’s probably ready for a shower to get cleaned off. It’s similar when it comes to my own cum and precum; inside my boxers on the subway as I head home after sex it’s uncomfortable, but inside my boxers when I’m satiated and in no mood to go anywhere, it’s very, very nice.
It’s how I wrote this post, and believe me, I was quite relaxed as I did so.
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